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Because the board got shutdown again because of a load of database, I had to fettle with the settings again.
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All I can do it button the hatches, and tighten up a few things. Such as time limits on how long you may take to compose a post and hit Debauch! As of 24/01/10, I've set that at 30 minutes for now.
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Roommate drama. What would you do?
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Midliferider
- Yogurt
- Location: Columbus, Ohio... a lone Triumph rider
Tell her to get off the pill and switch back to condoms. Then in a week or so after she has cooled down have a talk. When you then discover it wasn't the fault of the pill, cut out for sure. Leave a big turd in her bedroom and a note telling her ...your dog did this.
The world is full of warnings. An elevator smells different to a midget.
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stiles
- Ayatollah of Mayhem
- Location: Mid Atlantic
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Zer0
- Professor of Poop
- Location: Smoggy Valley--east of Smog City
Shit, what I've learned about you here is you're a giving and caring person. You're easy-going and generous. People like you seem to take more shit than others because they know they can dump alot on you, and you absorb whatever toxins they give you and you somehow neutralize it. But eventually a sponge can only absorb so much.
3 years? That's waaaaay too long for just a roommate. I've been in similar situations, and they practically sucked my life out of me. I've always been fortunate to have a good home to come home to--from childhood to today. Except for some rough patches in my marriage, my home has always been my shangri-la where I can unwind and get back to me and what keeps me happy and whole.
Crazybitch needs someone else to dump her irrational psychobaggage on, and you need to bail--if not immediately, then real soon, some timeframe where you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, and can hold your breath until then. Money isn't easy, but you have a shit ton more years to live and ride and hump and crash and enjoy, and if you wanna keep being the good and giving person that you are, you neeed to tend to yourself.
3 years? That's waaaaay too long for just a roommate. I've been in similar situations, and they practically sucked my life out of me. I've always been fortunate to have a good home to come home to--from childhood to today. Except for some rough patches in my marriage, my home has always been my shangri-la where I can unwind and get back to me and what keeps me happy and whole.
Crazybitch needs someone else to dump her irrational psychobaggage on, and you need to bail--if not immediately, then real soon, some timeframe where you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, and can hold your breath until then. Money isn't easy, but you have a shit ton more years to live and ride and hump and crash and enjoy, and if you wanna keep being the good and giving person that you are, you neeed to tend to yourself.
Ja-fucking-wohl!DerGolgo wrote:I'd try and find a cheap replacement for the panel on her Ninja. Not install it, just leave it on the kitchen table when you "surprisingly" (to her) move the heck out.
Maybe pin a bill for two-hours of carburettor work on it with a big red x and a scribbled "we're even" on it.
'74 R90/6--Thor
'05 Sportster 1200--FrankenRat
'05 Sportster 1200--FrankenRat
My boy D when he was 4 wrote:Bones aren't important--we like motorcycles.
High Kommand wrote:That's the problem with giving a bike a girl's name. Too much temptation to lay it down to examine the undercarriage...
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WeAintFoundShit
- Ayatollah of Mayhem
- Location: Davis
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Mea
- Maltov Rattlecan
- Location: Myersville
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rolly
- Tim Horton hears a Who?
- Location: Greater Trauma Area
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DerGolgo
- Zaphod's Zeitgeist
- Location: Potato
Now, don't get doubts. Don't get weak. Focus on the objective, the objective is all. At some point, you may think you made a mistake.
That may even be true (though not likely, considering your description), but it's now irrelevant.
Even if it turns out a mistake, it'll be a chapter closed, not months or years of wondering why you didn't do it.
You've made your decision, stick with it, no matter how appealing it is to change it.
You have an objective. Anything else in there is just noise. Noise which it will pay to placate, but just noise. Make no concessions which you cannot break, make any concession which you can break if it makes things flow smoother.
If she gets all emotional about how it sucks that you move out and may even start crying, you may want to drop a hint that you are open to changing your mind, BUT ONLY PRETEND. If you reject an emotional appeal, chances are, she'll turn psycho on you. Unnecessary noise.
That may even be true (though not likely, considering your description), but it's now irrelevant.
Even if it turns out a mistake, it'll be a chapter closed, not months or years of wondering why you didn't do it.
You've made your decision, stick with it, no matter how appealing it is to change it.
You have an objective. Anything else in there is just noise. Noise which it will pay to placate, but just noise. Make no concessions which you cannot break, make any concession which you can break if it makes things flow smoother.
If she gets all emotional about how it sucks that you move out and may even start crying, you may want to drop a hint that you are open to changing your mind, BUT ONLY PRETEND. If you reject an emotional appeal, chances are, she'll turn psycho on you. Unnecessary noise.
If there were absolutely anything to be afraid of, don't you think I would have worn pants?
I said I have a big stick.
I said I have a big stick.
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WeAintFoundShit
- Ayatollah of Mayhem
- Location: Davis
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WeAintFoundShit
- Ayatollah of Mayhem
- Location: Davis
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Sisyphus
- Rigging the Ancient Mariner
- Location: The Muckworks
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Rock
- Superfudge!
- Location: East Coast
- Contact:
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Zer0
- Professor of Poop
- Location: Smoggy Valley--east of Smog City
No denial there.WeAintFoundShit wrote:No emotional anything, just (to paraphrase) "Yep, my barking dog sucks. Good luck in school."
'74 R90/6--Thor
'05 Sportster 1200--FrankenRat
'05 Sportster 1200--FrankenRat
My boy D when he was 4 wrote:Bones aren't important--we like motorcycles.
High Kommand wrote:That's the problem with giving a bike a girl's name. Too much temptation to lay it down to examine the undercarriage...
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WeAintFoundShit
- Ayatollah of Mayhem
- Location: Davis
Sad thing is that (says my other female roommate) she will be ceasing the birth control shortly, because she knows it's making her insane.
So in about a month and a half, maybe even less, she will be all back to normal. The damage, however, has probably been done; we haven't spoken a word in weeks.
So in about a month and a half, maybe even less, she will be all back to normal. The damage, however, has probably been done; we haven't spoken a word in weeks.
"The grip on the right is the fun regulator." -Donny Greene
I crash a lot.
I crash a lot.
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Zer0
- Professor of Poop
- Location: Smoggy Valley--east of Smog City
Stick with the plan; the damage has definitely been done.
But good for her too, seriously.
But good for her too, seriously.
'74 R90/6--Thor
'05 Sportster 1200--FrankenRat
'05 Sportster 1200--FrankenRat
My boy D when he was 4 wrote:Bones aren't important--we like motorcycles.
High Kommand wrote:That's the problem with giving a bike a girl's name. Too much temptation to lay it down to examine the undercarriage...